办公室小圈子

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Every office I've ever worked in has had its little groups. 我待过的每家公司，都有各自的小圈子。

The ones who always go to lunch together, 总凑在一起吃午饭的，

the ones who share private jokes, 聊着只有他们懂的私密梗的，

the invisible lines about who talks to whom. 还有谁跟谁说话之间那道无形的界线。

When I was new, I found it stressful, 刚入职那会儿，我觉得压力特别大，

like being back in high school, 就像回到了高中时代，

trying to figure out where I fit. 总在琢磨自己该融入哪里。

For a while I thought I had 有一阵子我还以为

to pick a side to survive. 自己必须站队才能生存下去。

But I've learned that the healthiest 但后来我明白，最健康的状态

thing is to be friendly with everyone 其实是对所有人都保持友善，

and truly owned by no group. 但绝不真正属于任何一个小圈子。

You can be warm to all 你可以对每个人

of them without belonging to any of them. 都很热情，但不必归属于他们中的任何一方。

It keeps your work life simpler, 这样职场生活会简单很多，

and it means that when the groups inevitably clash, 也意味着当各个圈子不可避免地产生冲突时，

you're not caught in the middle of a war 你不会被夹在中间，去卷入一场

that was never yours. 本就与你无关的纷争。