一见面就聊结婚

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On a first date once, before our food had even arrived, 有次跟人第一次约会，菜都还没端上来呢，

the woman across from me asked how many children I wanted 坐在对面的女生就问我以后想要几个孩子，

and what I thought we should name them. 还问我觉得孩子该起什么名字。

I nearly choked on my water. 我差点一口水呛着。

I understood the impulse. 我其实挺理解这种冲动的。

She knew what she wanted and didn't want to waste time. 她清楚自己想要什么，也不想浪费时间。

But planning our imaginary family before we'd finished the appetizers was, 但前菜都还没吃完呢，就开始规划脑补中的家庭，

let's say, a lot. 怎么说呢，属实是有点让人吃不消。

There's a difference between knowing what you want 清楚自己想要什么是一码事，

and putting the entire weight of it 但把这一切的重量，

on a stranger you met twenty minutes ago. 全都压在一个刚认识二十分钟的陌生人身上，可就是另一码事了。

It's a bit like proposing before you've learned someone's last name. 这感觉就像连人家姓什么都还不知道，就先跟人求婚了一样。

Wanting a future is wonderful. 憧憬未来固然美好，

But you still have to let the present breathe a little first, 但你总得先给当下留点喘息的空间，

before you decide someone is the rest of your life. 然后再去决定这个人是不是要和你共度余生。