仪式感是矫情吗

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A friend once told me 以前有个朋友跟我说过，

that all my little rituals were just fuss. 说我搞的那些小仪式纯属瞎讲究。

The morning coffee, the handwritten cards, the flowers on the table. 清晨的咖啡、手写的卡片、桌上的鲜花。

He said none of it actually changes anything, 他说这些其实什么都改变不了，

and in a way, he's right. 某种程度上，他也没说错。

The coffee doesn't taste better because I drank it slowly. 咖啡并不会因为我喝得慢就变得更好喝。

But I think he was measuring the wrong thing. 但我总觉得他看错重点了。

These rituals were never meant to be useful. 这些仪式本来就不是为了有什么实际用处。

They're there to make ordinary life feel worth paying attention to. 它们的存在，是为了让平淡的日子也值得被认真对待。

Without them, the days just pile up, fast and forgettable. 要是没有它们，日子就只是一天天堆叠，过得飞快，又转眼就忘。

The fuss, as he called it, 他口中的‘瞎讲究’，

is how I tell myself that this moment matters. 其实是我用来提醒自己‘此刻很重要’的方式。

Maybe that's sentimental. 也许这听起来有点矫情吧。

But I'd rather notice my days than rush past them. 但我宁愿好好感受每一天，也不想匆匆忙忙地一晃而过。

If caring about small things is foolish, 如果在意这些小事算是一种傻，

then I'm happy to be a fool. 那我挺乐意当个傻子的。