睡一觉就好
类别:情绪
深夜容易放大焦虑与情绪,学会不在夜晚做决定,好好睡一觉,很多问题自会迎刃而解。
时长 56 秒 · 语速 140 wpm
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I've learned to be very suspicious 我现在学会了,绝不轻易相信
of my own thoughts late at night. 深夜里自己脑子里冒出的念头。
Everything feels heavier after midnight. 一过午夜,什么事都会变得格外沉重。
A small worry becomes a catastrophe, a minor problem feels impossible, 一点小小的担忧会变成灭顶之灾,微不足道的问题也会觉得根本解决不了,
and I lie there convinced my whole life is falling apart. 我就这么躺在床上,深信自己整个人生都要完蛋了。
But I've made a rule for myself now. 但我现在给自己定了一条规矩。
I'm not allowed to make any big decisions, 我绝不能做任何重大决定,
or believe any dark thoughts, after eleven at night. 也不能相信晚上十一点后的任何消极想法。
Because almost every single time, 因为几乎每一次,
I wake up the next morning and the monster from the night 第二天早上醒来,昨晚那个可怕的怪兽
before has shrunk back to its normal, manageable size. 都缩回到了原本正常、能应付的大小。
Nothing actually changed except that I slept. 其实除了我睡了一觉,什么都没变。
So now, when the night makes everything feel hopeless, 所以现在,每当黑夜让一切显得毫无希望时,
I just tell myself, go to sleep. 我就对自己说:去睡吧。
We'll look at this again in the daylight. 等天亮了再看这事儿。
It's amazing how often that's all it takes. 神奇的是,往往只要睡一觉就管用了。