邮件抄送全公司

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There's a quiet little power move in every office, 每个办公室里，都有种暗戳戳的职场小手段，

and it happens in email. 而且往往就发生在邮件往来中。

Someone has a small issue with you, 比如有人对你有一点小意见，

and instead of just asking you directly, 他不是直接来找你沟通，

they send a message and copy your boss, 而是专门发封邮件，抄送上你的领导，

and their boss, and half the company. 顺便再抄上他的领导，甚至半个公司的人。

Suddenly a tiny thing becomes a public performance. 瞬间，一件芝麻大点的小事就变成了一场公开大戏。

The first time it happened to me, I felt cornered, 我第一次遇到这种情况时，感觉自己被逼到了墙角，

like I had to defend myself in front of an audience. 好像非得当着所有人的面自证清白不可。

Now I handle it differently. 但现在我的应对方式不一样了。

I reply calmly, briefly, and I quietly take the real conversation offline, 我回信既冷静又简短，然后私下把真正要谈的事情转到线下，

just the two of us. 就我们两个人聊。

Refusing to play the email game usually ends it fast. 只要你不陪他们玩这种“邮件宫斗”，事情往往很快就会平息。

Most of that behavior is really about wanting to look important. 毕竟这种行为说到底，大多只是想刷存在感、显摆自己有多重要。

You don't have to hand them the stage. 你真没必要给他们搭戏台子。