拍马屁的人

类别:职场

面对职场中阿谀奉承的同事,与其焦虑不公,不如用过硬的实力赢得长久的信任。

时长 46 秒 · 语速 160 wpm

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There's someone in almost every workplace who has 几乎每个职场里总有那么一个人,

turned flattering the boss into a full-time art. 把拍领导马屁硬生生练成了一门绝活。

Every idea the manager has is brilliant. 领导随便提个想法,他们都觉得是绝妙好点子;

Every joke is hilarious. 领导随便讲个笑话,他们都能笑得前仰后合。

You can watch them switch it 你甚至能亲眼看着他们秒切状态,

on the second someone senior walks by. 只要大领导从旁边路过的那一秒,立马进入表演模式。

For a while it really bothered me. 有段时间,这事儿真挺让我犯膈应的。

It felt unfair, watching them get noticed for their charm 看着他们单凭嘴甜会来事儿就处处受重视,

instead of their work. 而不是靠真本事,我心里特别不平衡。

But I've stopped letting it get to me. 不过后来我也想通了,不再拿这事儿内耗自己。

Flattery might get you attention in the short term, 拍马屁短期内确实能让人出风头,

but it's a shaky foundation. 但这根基太虚、根本站不住脚。

When the pressure is really on 等真正顶着巨大压力、

and something needs to actually get done, 需要有人把事情踏踏实实落地搞定的时候,

people don't turn to the smooth talker. 大家根本不会去找那些嘴皮子溜的人,

They turn to the one who quietly does good work. 大家指望的,永远是平时默默把活儿干好的人。

I'd rather be trusted than adored. 比起讨人喜欢,我更想被人信任。

It lasts longer. 因为靠谱,才走得更长久。