沟通变色龙：适应不同场合

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And most of us 我们大多数人

write in a different voice for different situations. 在不同场合会用不同的语气写作。

You write 你写东西时

differently in your Instagram stories 在Instagram故事里的方式

than you do your senior thesis. 和写毕业论文时不同。

You send a different type of email to your boss 你给老板发的邮件类型

than you do your best friend from home. 和你给家里最好的朋友发的也不一样。

We are all 我们都是

literary chameleons, 文学变色龙，

and I think it's fascinating. 我觉得这很迷人。

It's just a continuation 这只是一个延续

of the idea that we are 我们是

so many things 如此多面

all the time. 这一想法的。

I know it can be really overwhelming 我知道这可能让人感到非常不知所措

figuring out who to be 弄清楚该成为什么样的人

and when, 以及何时成为，

who you are now 你现在是谁

and how to act 以及如何行动

in order to get where you want to go. 才能达到你想要去的地方。

I have some good news. 我有一些好消息。

It's totally up to you. 这完全取决于你。

I 我

have some terrifying news. 有一些可怕的消息。

It's totally up to you. 这完全取决于你。

I 我

said to you earlier that 之前告诉过你

I don't ever 我从不

offer advice 提供建议

unless someone asks me for it, 除非有人向我寻求。

and now I'll tell you why. 现在我来告诉你为什么。

As a person who started my very public career 作为一个开始了我的公开职业生涯的人

at the age of 15, 在15岁时，

it came with a price. 这付出了代价。

And that price 而那个代价

was years 是多年的

of unsolicited advice. 不请自来的建议。