失与得：人生之路的选择

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These mistakes 这些错误

will 会

cause you to lose things. 让你失去一些东西。

I'm trying to tell you 我想告诉你

that losing things 失去东西

doesn't just mean losing. 不仅仅意味着失去。

A lot of the time 很多时候

when we lose things, 当我们失去一些东西时，

we gain things too. 我们也会得到一些东西。

Now you leave the structure 现在你离开了结构

and framework 和框架

of school 学校的

and chart your own path. 并规划自己的道路。

Every choice you make 你做的每一个选择

leads to the next choice, 都会引向下一个选择，

which leads to the next. 而下一个又会引向再下一个。

And I know it's hard 我知道这很难

to know. 弄清楚。

which path to take. 该走哪条路。

There will be times in life 人生中会有一些时候

where you need to stand up for yourself. 你需要为自己挺身而出。

Times when the right thing is actually to 有些时候，正确的事情实际上是

back down and apologize. 退让并道歉。

Times when the right thing is to fight. 有些时候，正确的事情是去战斗。

Times when the right thing is to 有些时候，正确的事情是

turn and run. 转身逃跑。

Times to hold on with all you have. 有些时候要竭尽全力坚持。

And times to let go with grace. 也有时候要优雅地放手。

Sometimes the right thing to do is to 有时候，正确的事情是

throw out the old schools of thought 抛弃旧的思想流派

in the name of progress 以进步之名

and reform. 和改革。

Sometimes the right thing 有时候，正确的事情

to do is to sit 是坐下来

and listen to the wisdom of those 倾听那些人的智慧

who have come before us. 那些前辈。

How will you know 你怎么会知道

what the right choice is 什么是正确的选择

in these crucial moments? 在这些关键时刻？

You won't. 你不会知道的。

How do I give advice to this many people 我怎么能给这么多人提建议

about their life choices? 关于他们的人生选择？

I won't. 我不会的。

The scary news is 令人担忧的消息是

you're on your own now. 你现在要靠自己了。