养家与陪伴的深刻反思

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It was because I was gone. 是因为我不在。

Even when I was home, 就算我在家的时候，

I was gone. 我也不在。

She told me once, 她有一次跟我说，

I remember this clear as anything, she said, William, 我记得清清楚楚，她说，William，

I don't need the money. 我不需要钱。

I need you. 我需要你。

I need you to look at me. 我需要你看着我。

I need you to hear me. 我需要你听我说话。

I need you to be here. 我需要你人在心也在。

And I didn't understand. 可我当时不明白。

I thought I was being here. 我以为我就在那儿。

I was paying the bills, wasn't I? 我不是在付账单吗？

I was keeping a roof over our heads. 我不是在养家糊口吗？

Took me a long time to understand the difference 我花了很长时间才明白，

between providing for someone and being present with someone. 养家和陪家人是两码事。

They're not the same thing. 根本不一样。

Not even close. 差远了。